The Sunnah of the prophet? Tolerate differences, focus on mission

August 12th, 2009 by hossam

We are often faced in our growing Muslim community with differences of opinion in various Fikhi matters.  Using the Sunnah of the prophet to handle these differences is key to our success as a community. Below are a couple of examples from the Seerah on how the prophet PBUH handled difference of opinion.  

After the battle of Uhud the companions were ordered by the prophet to head immediately to Bani Quryza (BQ). The prophet gave the companions an order: “Do not pray Asr until you reached Bani Quryza.” The companions therefore hastened to travel to BQ. However, they eventually realized that they will not be able to reach Bani Qurayza before Maghrib prayer.

 

At this time, they divided into two groups. One group said: we need to move ahead, and to combine Asr and Maghrib together and pray them once we reach BQ. The command of the prophet was very specific and left no doubt in anyone’s mind : he said : “DO NOT pray Asr until you reach Bani Qurayza”. The other group said: the prophet would never intend for us to miss Asr prayers. We need to pray Asr now! The prophet intended by his command that we should go as fast as we can to BQ.

 

So, one group prayed before, and the other group prayed after. When they finished their mission in BQ, they rushed back to the prophet, each group narrating what happened to the prophet, and hoping that the prophet PBUH would indicate that they were right. Being the master educator, and teaching the companions the true sunnah, the prophet did not indicated that one was right and the other was wrong. In fact, both were right since they did their best to understand the command of the prophet, and to fulfill the command. More importantly, each group focused on the bigger mission to which they were sent, rather than divide over a specific technical understanding of a Fikhi command of the prophet.

 

It is interesting that later scholars had the same approach. Ibn Hazm used to say: By Allah, if I were with them, I would have never prayed Asr before reaching BQ. We must apply the command of the prophet literally, without making any changes or making any “guesses”. Ibn Al-Quayyim, however, used to say : By Allah, had I been with them, I would have definitely prayed Asr before reaching BQ, because the *intent* of the prophet’s command was that we hasten as much as possible.

 

I reflect on the following :

  • unity to the companions was much deeper than simply praying at the same time. Note that they must have had an Amir, who could have easily mandated that they pray together. But even the Amir understood unity to be much more, and allowed for legitimate difference of opinion within the united group – as long as there is tolerance.  The real unity was one of mission and tolerating that each can have a difference of opinion, while being united on a common mission.
  • The prophet, being the best educator, could have said that one was right and one was wrong. After all, he *must* have intended one position or the other when he offered the original command. But he realized that the key is that the Muslims stay united on the bigger mission that they have, which was their mission on dealing with their enemy in BQ, who had violated the treaty with the prophet.
  • One of our challenges as leaders is to define a “mission” for the community, that would enable everyone to be motivated by the big picture, and to realize that we need to stay united, and that unity mandates that we tolerate the Fikhi differences of how each understands the specific Fikhi commands of Islam, and to realize that Islam’s real mission is so much bigger : tawheed, delivering the message of Islam to millions in Boston who know nothing about Allah, empowering the weak Muslim community, uniting against our enemies (Islamophpobes and others) who are putting their differences aside to undermine Islam and Muslims, to work for the poor, hungry, and oppressed in the larger society.

 

One time the prophet sent the companions in another mission. During this mission, they argued together in a similar matter. The matter was whether they are able to fight during the first day of the “Harraam Month” – where fighting is not allowed. However, this time, they were not tolerant of each other and they came back to the prophet, without fulfilling their mission, but with a big argument in their hands. The prophet was so angry with them, and rebuked them by saying: you left me united and you came back to me divided. Again, the prophet did not discuss who was “right” and who was “wrong”. Rather, he told them both were wrong since they allowed the difference of understanding a specific Fikhi issue to neglect their larger mission.  
The challenge is not in having legitimate fikhi differences in how we understand and approach Islam (for instance, literally obeying the command, or looking for the intent behind the command). However, the challenge is to rally a “wandering” community towards Islam’s common mission of Dawa and Islah (promoting Islam, and doing good in society).

Thoughts after the historic election – Nov 4, 2008

November 5th, 2008 by hossam

As a great Prophet, Muhammad (PBUH) saw beyond the imperfections of his people, and had a vision of where their sound values would be so much better with them truly aligned with their Creator. He saw the good in strength and passion in Umar, and prayed for him. He saw the soundness of character in his people, and realized that the best amongst them before, is also the best after they know their Creator. The human imperfections of His people did not make him loose sight of the tremendous good and potential that they had. Even in the darkest moments, when stones were being hurled at Him, he was still praying: “Oh Allah, forgive my people, for they do not know.”

There is a lot of hope today for Islam in America. There is a lot of hope because of the genuine decency and soundness of America as a people. The cherished values in America are well aligned with Islam.

In the election, the desire for diversity and looking beyond race, was shown to have power and appeal, especially when practiced with wisdom, and as a tool of bringing people together. 1400 years ago, when slavery was to be the accepted norm of centuries to come, it was prophet Muhammad who instilled the first hope when he said: “Follow you leader, even if he is a black man”. Allah created all of us “from male and female”, diverse “nations and tribes”, in order to work with one another.

Unity in moving together as an Ummah, even if we differ on important “policies”, a golden ideal cherished in Islam, has shown itself real in America today. McCain’s concession speech was more important than Obama’s acceptance speech. The ability to differ vehemently with the other, oppose him in important tactical and strategic issues, have millions of people follow you and believe in you, and then accept that in order for us to make a real difference, we have to move behind one leader, and that leader is you, not I : this is a great example in unity. This is one of the real strengths of America. “And do not disunite, lest you fail and loose your strength.”

Recognizing the good and having a vision for its value is key to be able to bring change – since that good is the fuel that starts the journey to overcome the faults. The faults are there, and they have to be addressed. But all must be done in the positive spirit of “Oh My People”. It should be done in the spirit of love and brotherhood: “To the People of ____, We sent their Brother _____”.

Islam in America will have a place to call home. For this to happen we must realize that Islam is not just “ours” to keep. We must realize that “home” is right here, and no where else. We must go back to the true prophetic definition of who are “our people”. We must realize and cherish the tremendous good that America has, and what it aspires to become. We must care so much as to offer genuine solutions for the ills in our society. We must genuinely pray “Gob Bless America”.

Advice on finding a spouse

October 30th, 2008 by hossam

I often speak to brothers and sisters who want to get married. It is difficult for Muslims to find a spouse in America. The reason is that there aren’t a lot of potential Muslim spouses that a person usually knows. Also, the parents usually want their son/daughter to marry from their ethnic background. All of this limits the availability of potential spouse. Below is a practical advice that I recommend for those wanting to get married

BE PROACTIVE
Don’t be shy about this. There is no time to waste. The earlier you start the better. The likelihood that, without specifically looking, some sweet-heart will “fall” into your life-path is very slim. You have to be proactive and “look” for – “search” for – your spouse. You must realize that this is more difficult than finding a good job for example. You have to be proactive and actively search.

DONT DELAY
Smart people – who find the best spouse for themselves – realize and practice the pro-active mentality early on. Most people become proactive after a long time. It is never too late and you should be proactive as soon as possible. You should be looking even before you are 100% ready for marriage – because it will usually take you 1-4 years to find a spouse, from the time you start looking.

KNOW YOURSELF
It is important that you yourself as early as possible. Who are you? What is important for you? What do you want to do in the future? Where do you want to live? What are the important principles in your life? What are your unique characteristics as a person? As a spouse? You will have to address these issues with any serious potential spouse. The sooner you know yourself, the easier it will be for you to be serious for your potential spouse.

KNOW WHAT YOU WANT
The earlier you know what you want in a spouse the more likely you will be to find that spouse. What is the most important thing that you care about? What is the minimum that will be acceptable to you? You must have a clear idea about where you stand about : age range, ethnicity, education, religiosity, beauty, income. What is your ideal, your average, and the least that you will accept? These are important questions. You should be specific.

WIDEN YOUR SEARCH
You need to make the pool of selection as wide as possible. You need to look in your city, state, and in the entire country. Don’t limit yourself only to those you know, because that is usually a very limited selection. The full decision at the end will be all yours, so don’t be afraid to expand the initial pool. Then you can say no to whomever does not fit your criteria. Don’t just ask all your fiends, but also ask them to ask their friends. Make sure that your friends’ spouse knows that you are looking. Don’t just ask your local Imam, but all other imams in the area. You should consider conventions and internet sites. And yes, you should ask your parents. They can be the most dedicated in helping you (even if sometimes too much so). Identifying a potential spouse will in no means restrict you to your choices.

DONT BE SHY
Marriage is really too serious of an issue for your life to allow shyness to get on the way. You have to overcome the shyness that will prevent you from finding the right person. For instance, a sister should not be shy in approaching a brother in the best manner for serious consideration of marriage. The worst that can happen when you are not shy is a rejection. You get over it and move on. But if you see a person who may be the right person, don’t by shy to approach them – in the best manner. Don’t be shy in asking others for help as well. It is very unlikely that you can do this alone.

CREATE A FILE ABOUT YOURSELF
Create a 1 page detailed word document that you can pass around to others with specific information. First about yourself, who you are, what you want in life, your background, job, education, age, picture, life experience. Then you should have a section about what you are looking for in a spouse, in terms of age, ethnicity, education, etc.. And then a third section about your references: community leaders or trusted individuals who know you well. Have that file available to send to anyone who is helping you. This will be very useful for them. Make their job easier.

BE OPEN ABOUT ETHNICITY
Often times parents, and less often the community, expects the person to marry from their own ethnic or racial background. It is time to push back on this. It is difficult enough to find an American Muslim spouse, not to mention one from the parent’s home town! Seek help from older individuals and Imams in the community to approach your parents (or potential spouse parents) about this issue and to help them overcome their fears.

PRAY TO ALLAH : A good spouse is a most precious gift, which, like all others, comes from Allah. Pray to Allah SWT and be patient until Allah SWT grants you what you are looking for.

Have some additional advice? Please share them below

Share information about good movies

August 28th, 2008 by hossam

Movies and TV shows are a form of entertainment and possibly education. Below, share information about good movies or TV programs that can be entertaining, or educational, and appropriate for viewing by a Muslim audience.

For each program/movie, try to write about

- name, web site if available

- how to obtain

- what the story is about (briefl),

- most important : what is the entertainment or educational value that attracted you to it

The nature of the road

August 28th, 2008 by hossam

Living through the ups and downs and challenges of Islamic work and community service confirmed to me that there are indeed four cornerstones to any success in our Islamic work.
1- Sincerity. Unwavering focus on our Creator as the only reason why we are engaged in community service and Islamic work. No personal gains. No love of show. No desire for approval of others at the expense of Allah’s. He is the only One who counts. His pleasure is the only reason why we are in this. Our reward is not to win, not to gain acceptance, not to please people, not to be thanked, not to be rewarded in any way in this life … rather our goal is to please Him, to have Him be proud of us as individuals, to grant us paradise. Even the ultimate reward of victory and success in this life (numbers, projects, institutions, followers, etc) are far below the desire for His Pleasure.

2- Understanding: We can have the best of intentions, but without a good understanding and a good roadmap, we will fail, notwithstanding the abundance of sincerity. Indeed the road to hell is full of good intentions. Radicals who go to extremes are oftentimes full of good intentions. This means that we must understand our religion, understand Life, understand our surroundings and communities and society, and we must ourselves. We must understand the nature of the road …. The priorities …. Dealing with differences … We must have a good understanding of things around us, of what can and cannot be done. We must have a well articulated mission and have a roadmap.

3- Sacrifice: we can have the best understanding, the best mission, and be full of intentions – but without true sacrifice and a willingness to do what it takes in order to serve, then we will not succeed. This road requires sacrifices. It is not easy. It is full of challenges and detractors – both internally and externally. Life is full of temptations. Life is calling every second to be lived and enjoyed at the expense of the divine call to serve others. We must be willing and ready to sacrifice whatever is needed.

4- Perseverance : the road is long. It is not a few years. It is not a phase of your life when you are young, or unmarried, or before you have a job, or before you have children, or before you are old. The nature of the road is that it is long and requires a lot of patience. At times you will be excited, and others tired. At times you will be strong and at others weak. At times you will lead and others you will follow. At times you will succeed and others you will fail. But you must keep going under all circumstance. Therefore you need to pace yourself. You are not running 100 meter dash where you can just give it all you can and that it is. It is a marathon. A life long commitment. It took Noah 1000 years. Year 9 in Mecca our prophet was still being tortured and ridiculed. This will take time. Change may take generations. Your role may end up only sowing the seeds of goodness.

Understanding this is a gift. Being able to live it is a prize. Being able to model all our life after it the Real success. But it can be done. Here are some suggestions on how to increase each element :

1- Sincerity: long prayers at night. Long sessions with the Book of the Divine. Tears over the sins. Questioning the intention and sincerity of each action that you do. Doing deeds that are unnoticed and unappreciated and un-thanked by others. Keeping with the spiritual exercises during all phases of life. Developing a deep personal relation with our Lord.

2- Understanding: accompany the scholars and the leaders and the pious. Learn and understand. Differentiate between book knowledge and wisdom. A love of reading and knowledge. A humbleness that allows you to learn from everyone – even the less learned and even the enemy. A sincere commitment to seeking the truth, even when it is painful. Focusing on the fundamentals instead of the complex details (in knowledge). Protecting knowledge with sincerity.

3- Sacrifice: welcome the tests and take them as an opportunities to grow. Live a simple life. Do not get attached to the extras of life, since you will not be able to leave them in difficult time. Anticipate difficulties for those on this path. Donate much. Donate time and money and effort. Be giving. Be caring. Sleep less. Do not sleep in the comfortable bed every day. Fast. Welcome the hardships as preparation for a successful future. When sacrificing, think of this test as if it is the last one.

4- Perseverance: pace your self. Always remember that the road is long. This is a life long endeavor. Remember that this is a marathon. When you clearly see the setback understand that this is the nature of the road. Be like the believers in Ahzab when they saw the Ahzab gathering (Ahzab, verse : 22). Make a life-long plan. Think of yourself in the next phase. Accompany those who lived long and are still on the path.

When good people make mistakes

August 28th, 2008 by hossam

It is a fact that good pious people make mistakes. This is a tough challenge for us. Good people, and good leaders are to be followed and loved. Why do they make mistakes and how can we handle that? How can we differentiate when they are right and when they are wrong?

I reflect on Adam peace be upon him. A true prophet of Allah. An inspired prophet whom Allah created with His own hands. A prophet who spoke to Allah. A prophet who received a direct command from Allah as not to eat from the tree. Yet Adam was tricked by the shaitan. The shitan tricked Adam, and continues to trick pious believers to our days.

There is also prophet Yonis, who left his people because he could not withstand their irrational disbelief. He left and Allah rebuked him. He was reminded, begged for forgiveness, and after a long dark period inside the whale, was eventually forgiven.

There was hatib Ibn Abi Balta3a who was tricked by the shaitan, and thought it acceptable under erroneous pretext to tell the Meccans about the secret plans of the prophet PBUH. The Quran rebuked him, and the prophet recognized his long standing in the dawa and sacrifices in the early battle of badr – and accepted his repentence.

There was the differences between the companions that led to much chaos during the time of Ali and Uthman.

These, and many other examples, are important for the believers across the ages to realize the following:
• A pious believer, can be at fault and make mistakes. You can err. Walk the earth humbly and never think that what you are doing is the absolute truth. The shaitan is very tricky, and you could be tricked.
• Also, you need Allah to help you find out that you are mistaken and to help you repent. If you do not have a strong deep spiritual relationship with Allah before the times of trial, then you could end up missing an important opportunity to go back when you err
• the believer should always be in search for the Truth. You should not just accept that any human being will always be right. However loved and smart and pious and inspired this individual may be. Every human being has potential to be wrong. You, and those whom you love and respect included. One of the most difficult tests is when a beloved leader is mistaken. You should always be in search for the truth. You need to mature yourself to be able to identify the righteous using the criteria of Truth, and not the other way around. You know the leaders from their following the truth, and not the other way around. This is not easy. It requires much wisdom, and much guidance from Allah.

In fact Islam embraces this issue of human (and leader/scholar) errors, as long as it is done within the rules of Islam. A scholar who thinks hard and errs in his/her judgement receives one reward from Allah SWT (not two). The errors should be accompanied by sincerity, by selfless desire to find the Truth, repentance when due, abiding by the complex rules of disagreement (such as respecting authority, unity, priority, and respecting others).

This is also why prophet taught the companions that, within the acceptable limits of Islam, they can challenge their most beloved leaders, who may not have the best opinion. In Badr the prophet decided to camp in one area. A companion asked the prophet : is this a command from Allah? When it turned out that this was the opinion of the prophet, the man did not hesitate to offer what he saw as a better opinion. Many followers think that pious leaders will not err. The companion in badr was less in piety, knowledge and stature than the prophet, but he offered advise in the best of manners. Most beloved and trusted leaders can err, and followers should not be blind followers – as long as it is done in the manners Islamically acceptable.

This is why the prophet asked for forgiveness many times a day – although he is a prophet. And, he also asked Allah for guidance : Oh Allah, help us to recognize the Truth, and then guide us to follow the Truth once we recognize it. How about us mere mortals?

The importance of Trust

August 28th, 2008 by hossam

The ability to “trust” is a very powerful and empowering concept in life. With trust, one can do so much more, achieve so much more, and become so much more. Being “trusting” allows the person to gather so much more energy and power and momentum, compared to the opposite. Being “trusting” grants the individual so much more inner peace, and therefore more wisdom and more ability to handle bigger things in life.

The first kind of trust is Trust in the Almighty. Trust in the Creator. He is with us. He will not leave us. He has a plan. He is Merciful and Good. He is loving. If he brought us to it, He will bring us through it. He supports the believers. He created us for a purpose. He is Wise. …Having deep and firm trust in Allah changes the person. It is like giving a person sight and ability to handle issues with Allah on your side. Allah meets the expectation of the believer. If you believe that He is with you, He will not let you down.

Another kind of trust is trust in the prophet and in the last message that was sent. Trust that it is Good; it is complete; it is empowering; it is viable for all times; it is flexible; it is a cure.

Another kind of trust is trust in yourself. If Allah asks you to do something, then you CAN do it. Allah does not put on your plate as a believer more than what you can handle. That, as a human being, as an honored creation of Allah, as a believer, you have the ability to learn, to accomplish, to succeed, to grow, to lead, to teach, to overcome fears, to be courageous, to be honorable, to be strong. Your father (Adam) was created by the Hands of Allah, and has the spirit of Allah. You are a descendent of Great Men, and you should trust yourself and your ability to overcome.

Then there is the trust in those who are with us in the journey. Trust in the leaders, trust in the followers, trust in the believers, trust in the children and the spouse. Trust people and they will meet your expectation. Trust that people are inherently good. That people want to be better. That people are inherently trying as hard as you are trying. Trust in the believers because they trust in Allah .. because they are on the path with you … trust in the leadership and obey .. trust in the followers and give big responsibilities .. trust in the community that they are fit to be better and lead … trust in all human beings that they are inherently good, and that they will follow the Truth if it is wisely explained. Trust that the one who errs will come back and repent. Trust that the one who falls can and will get back up on his feet and try again. Trust that it is alright to be human. That it is OK to make mistakes and then to repent and go back. Trust in your children and family.

Trust summons great inner strength. It empowers everyone around you including yourself. It generates the best out of every human being. It elevates everyone beyond the mundane and helps them aspire to the high peaks. It enables wisdom and empowers goodness.

Next time you look at anyone, look with trust. Look in the mirror with Trust. Read the Quran with Trust. Look at your leaders with Trust. Look at your followers, the young generation, your employees, with trust. Look at your children with trust. Trust that they can be the best. Trust that they are able. Trust that they are good. Trust that they are strong. Give more and don’t hold back. Don’t agonize, rather, trust. You will see very strong result.

As a human being, a leader, and a prophet, Muhammad PBUH exhibited the best example of trust. Trusting in Allah and his promises. Trusting in the message that He was mandated to deliver. Trusting in his leaders and followers. Trusting in the innate goodness of people – including some of his harshest enemies. Trusting in the Will of Allah SWT.

Share information about good books

January 1st, 2008 by hossam

Please share information below about good books, in English, that you recommend for MAS members to read.

For each book, include SOME of the following (as much as you can)

- Title, Author, Subject, brief description, online link to book (or to place to purchase), your thoughts on the book.

Sample Subjects could be

- Islamic Studies; History; Islam in the West; Politics; Current Affairs; Leadership; etc….

The American Muslim Identify

June 23rd, 2007 by hossam

(This piece has been written by Dr Suheil Ghannoushi, of MAS. Placed on this blog for comments and feedback) 

America is a pluralistic society per excellence.  America doesn’t have a state religion, and Americans don’t constitute one race or one ethnicity.

America is a society of immigrants.  Ever since its discovery (), people from different parts/corners of the world migrated to the U.S.  They came from different religious, ethnic, and racial backgrounds.

All groups faced the challenge of preserving their identity (culture and/or religion), mostly through isolation, and later had to deal with the challenge of integration in society, and development of a new identity.  The nature and the magnitude of the challenge were different for different groups, and the outcome span the whole spectrum from isolation to assimilation.  Often times, the spectrum was covered by different segments/factions or members of the same group/community.  Muslims are no exceptions, except that only 2/3 of them are relatively recent immigrants, and they already constitute four different generations of immigrants.  The other 1/3 are African Americans.

Muslims also cover the whole spectrum when it comes to their level of integration in society.  However, the trend is towards rapid increase of the fraction of Muslims who were born and raised in this country.  These constitute more than 2/3 of the recently immigrant Muslim community.  The vast majority of the rest consciously and willfully chose America to be their country (Americans by choice), lived here for quite sometime, and most of them already got their citizenship.

 

Moreover, the American Muslim community is predominately moderate and their understanding and practice of Islam doesn’t hinder their integration in society.  The two components/constituents of their identity are perfectly compatible, and fuse/mesh smoothly/seamlessly and naturally.

 

Moreover, American Muslims are above average when it comes to their income and level of education, which makes them stakeholders in society.

American Muslims came a long way in integrating in society and in developing a genuine and cohesive American Muslim identity and way of life.  This process is expected to be easier and faster than for any other minority, because Muslims have intrinsic advantages that can facilitate the process, when compared with other minorities.  The Islamophobia and the climate of fear that prevailed after 9/11, and the increased direct entanglement of the U.S. with the Muslim world may on the surface and in the short run hamper the process of integration.  However, if American Muslims read and handle the situation correctly/properly, they may well turn it into an opportunity to accelerate their integration, and fulfill an important role as a bridge between the U.S. and the Muslim world.

 

The development of an American Muslim identity should be easier and faster than for most other minorities, because of the nature of Islam as a universal religion and the nature of society, and a pluralistic society of immigrants whose constitution guarantees freedom of religion and freedom of expression.

 

Being an American doesn’t say/indicate anything about your religion, race, ethnicity, culture, and views.  And being a Muslim doesn’t say/indicate anything about your race, ethnicity, culture, and nationality/citizenship.  So, there is nothing conceptually that prevents the blending/fusion of these two components into one cohesive identity.  There is nothing in Islam that prevents a Muslim from being a good loyal American citizen, and there is nothing in the requirements for American citizenship that interferes with the Muslims practice and even promotion of Islam and fulfilling his/her duty of enjoining that which is good and forbidding that which is evil.  Requirements here don’t refer to the legal requirements of citizenship, but the characteristics of a good and loyal citizenship.  Indeed, one needs not to compromise any of his/her religious duties to be a good citizen, and needs not to breach any of his/her civic duties (not only citizenship requirements) to be a good Muslim.  In contrast, the Muslim religious and civic duties mesh together perfectly, and Islam mandates not only good citizenship, but exemplary and active citizenship.

 

On one hand, the U.S. has, throughout its history, accommodated all kinds of religions, ethnicities, cultures, and races.  And Islam and Muslims are no exception, especially that the vast majority of American Muslims were born and raised here, and therefore they don’t know any other country or culture except those of America.  The rest are Americans by choice (naturalization).  They are grateful for the freedom and better opportunities they get in this country.  All American Muslims have a stake in the country they have chosen to be theirs, and in which their children and grand children will be living.  This, and religious obligations for practicing Muslims, leave no room for Muslims but to work for the well-being of their country and fulfill all their obligations/contracts (including those of the citizenship or the visa applications).

 

The nature of the American society and constitution, facilitate the integration of any group in the society, without having to disavow any element of their original identity.

Indeed, if America accommodated races and sectarian/racial religious groups, it should be easier for Muslims who subscribe to – and promote – a universal religion which, throughout its history accommodated all races, cultures, ethnicities, and nationalities.

If it is possible for Japanese, Chinese, Indians, Jews, Africans, Hindus, Sikhs, and Buddhists to develop an American identity it should be easier for Muslims who don’t constitute a race or nationality, and whose religion is neither racial nor sectarian. 

On the other hand, Islam, is not only compatible with all cultures and its values are universal, the moral standards of Islam are higher than any other standards.  Indeed, practicing Muslims restrain themselves from many destructive acts that are legal, and may even be social norms, or at least socially acceptable.  So, Muslims, if they are not part of the solution, they are not part of the problem.

 

American Muslims can be any type/kind of citizens.  But practicing Muslims are expected to be at least good citizens, and active Muslims should automatically be active citizens.  Indeed, fulfilling the mission of Islam requires active Muslims to be civically engaged and to reach out to people and maximize their interaction with them, which help accelerating the development of a genuine and cohesive American Muslim identity.  And to be effective in their mission of Dawa and Islah, active Muslims, have to fully embrace the American Muslim identity.  Indeed, Quran teaches us that prophets were always sent from amongst their people and with their language, so that they can deliver the message effectively. 

 

The main reasons that delayed of hindered the process of developing an American Muslim identity and integrating in society are:

1- the “myth of return” which until recently caused the vast majority of immigrant Muslims to think of themselves as temporary immigrants, and therefore they focused on preserving their identity.

2- the fact that many Muslims don’t believe in the obligation of preaching and activism, which necessitates integration and adoption and developing and American Muslim identity.

3- misconceptions among some groups about the Islamic perspective on the relationship with non-Muslims and the fiqh of citizenship 

4- the blatant and rampant injustice in the American foreign policy, especially towards Muslim causes and the American patronage of corrupt and oppressive regimes in the Muslim world.

5- the tragic experience of the African Americans, which generated lots of resentment

6- most recently, it is the Islamophia, and the climate of fear that has been fueled by bigots who abused the tragic events of 9/11.

 

The myth of return has, for all practical purposes, faded, and the vast majority of Muslims are accepting the fact that not only they are here to stay, but also they are and should be an integral part of society.  MAS is tackling the other obstacles by promoting the proper understanding of Islam, and intensifying and diversifying Muslim outreach efforts and civic engagement.  We believe that both bigotry and isolation result from ignorance, and that education facilitates integration.

 

As for the unjust policies, whether domestic or foreign past or present, and our objections to those policies should not prevent us from being proud and loyal citizens of this country.  This is because first, there are so many good things in this country that should not be obscured by those policies.  And second, there is no other country in the world (of which Muslims are proud and loyal citizens) that doesn’t have bad policies and laws.  Ironically, in most Muslim countries, people don’t enjoy the freedom of religion and expression (including Dawa) that we enjoy in this country.  And from Islamic perspective, the freedom of practicing and conveying Islam, are more crucial than anything else.  And if you add to this the fact that we have a system where government is elected and can be petitioned, and there is a reasonable level of accountability and respect of the people’s will, then all we need to do is to be involved/engaged, voice our opinions, advocate our positions on issues, and work to promote that which is good and reform/fix that which is wrong.  In doing that we are encouraged by the compatibility between the constitution and our Islamic values.  If we object to a policy, a law, a social norm, a public official, or even an amendment to the constitution, we need to abide by it, while working, through civic engagement, to change it.  In our civic engagement, we will take principled positions that serves the American interests, and express them is a relevant discourse to win the public opinion to those positions.  We will join hands with those who share with us those positions.  As for our opponents (on a particular issue) and our detractors, we will engage them civically and settle our differences in the court of public opinion, or in the ballot boxes, or through legislation and even litigation. 

 

Practical Tarbiya experience: Unity and being a team member

February 13th, 2007 by hossam

This is a story about a Tarbiya experience that I went thru early-on as a new MAS member. This story taught me more about teamwork and etiquettes of Islamic work more than reading many books and hearing many lectures. This is what Tarbiya is about, and in essence what is unique about MAS.

This is how the incident goes: Because of the many troubles in the Muslim world, I sensed that the community needed to hold a rally in support of a certain Muslim cause (unnecessary details skipped). The entire community was talking about this issue, and people were frustrated that very little was being done. I spoke to many people who were of the opinion that a rally in Boston would mobilize the community, and would bring to the front this particular issue. It seemed like a very good idea, and that we would get hundreds of people out for this rally.

As member in a team, I knew that these decisions are not to be taken alone. I brought the issue up to the chapter council. Brother Walid, a dear brother, was adamantly against the idea of a rally. “It is a waste of time”  His opinion was that rallies simply diffuse people’s energies. It is best to channel people’s energies into something more constructive. “Rallies are like blowing into a balloon, and just letting it burst with no real result.” For me, I knew that this was non-sense. A rally is a very good idea because it sheds light on the issue in front of the whole world. And then we can even use the rally as a starting point for the many other educational aspects. But we must show our support. Time is running out. We debated the hot issue for a while, with people in favor and others against.

At the end, the chapter council made a decision (I think a vote may have been taken, I don’t remember). The decision was that: we should hold a rally.  I was very happy that this was the final good decision.

The council then needed to identify a person who would lead the effort of organizing the rally. This was an important decision since there was still a lot of effort that needs to be put in making this rally a success. Deep down, I was of course willing to take on this awesome responsibility. To be honest, I am the best choice, with all the passion I have for the issue. The council, however, chose brother Walid to lead the rally. Well, I was stunned. I didn’t say anything, and wasn’t sure what to say. But man: this is a good way to kill a project. What would Walid do? He is so much against it and he feels it is the worst idea since the atom bomb! How could they pick him?!

And here goes the Tarbiya lesson. Brother Walid was then “transformed” into a “believer”. He worked so hard – probably harder than I would have – to make it a success. He calls people, makes announcements, sends emails, gives khutbas, and much more. I was … well .. learning.

This “practical Tarbiya lesson” taught me a lot about being a member in a team / jamaa, and how I should accept the decisions of the shura. What Allah expects from me, is not to simply “accept” the decision of the team, rather, once the decision is made, adopt it as my own. Before the decision is made, everyone is entitled to (indeed required to) bring forth all the arguments, and support them with all his heart. This is the time before a decision is made. This is an important time where debate and shura need to happen. Then, once a decision is made, it is now MY decision as well – even if I wanted the exact opposite. This is the only real meaning of unity. This is what is required by Allah SWT and is a basic Islamic etiquette that the prophet PBUH taught and mandated. In Islamic jurisprudence, this is often called “obedience” to the leadership. In essence, this obedience is not to “individuals”, but rather, it is to a process or a concept: shura.

This is the only way to achieve unity. And Unity is MANDATED by Allah SWT. This unity is greatly lacking in our Muslim Ummah and the Muslim community. Don’t get me wrong : we all love each other, and hug each other in Eid. We may even pray Eid together, which is wonderful. But this is not the unity that Allah SWT requires when he says: “And hold fast to the rope of Allah, together, and do not disunite”. There is a definition of unity in the Muslim community, which is a bad definition, that goes like this: “unity is that when we disagree, each one of us respect the other, and goes his own way doing what he pleases”. This is a very good practice; but it is not “unity”. This may be called “positive mutual understanding”, but it is not unity. Unity is : when we disagree, we discuss the issues, debate the issues, (even fight the issues if we have to), but then at the end we still move together as a team.

No this does not mean that we need to become carbon copies of each other, or that we need to unite in every issue. We shall maintain our unique individual differences and opinions, but some decisions and issues are “communal” issues. In these issues,  we must move together as a team. Many of the decisions we make every day are not TEAM decisions. They are individual decisions. Whether we are Shafi, Maliki, Hanbali, etc.. is an example of these individual decisions that are perfectly fine. But there are communal decisions where the Ummah (or team, organization, community, jamaa, movement) must stick together and move as a united front. This is so basic to Islam. It is also a basic principle in successful organizations, communities, and teams. 

Effective Tarbiya in MAS means that you turn every situation into a Tarbiya (education) lesson. Don’t loose these golden opportunities. As a MAS leader when you have an opportunity to provide such Tarbiya avenues, don’t pass them by. Try it out in the small things (like the rally, where picking Walid may not have been the natural choice), so that you can teach members how to be better team players. This saves a lot of problems later when more difficult “real” situations and tests arise.